I read a quote that said: never make someone a priority, who only makes you an option. I understand that this means self care, and that you shluld never let anyone in a relationship hurt you, physically or mentally. But i’ve known infatuation, and i’ve known love. And when it’s love, you have to give the person your all, even when you don’t get theirs. Because when you love someone, truly with all your heart, it isn’t about getting anything in return. It’s about making sure THEIR needs are met, and that THEY are okay, physically and mentally. Even if it means putting your own health on the line. When you really love someone, they’re well-being is all that matters to you.