Just two things I’d like to say.
1- The thing I find most ugly about anyone is someone who wishes death or severe harm to someone else.
2- How do you punish someone without any humiliation? I do believe humiliation destroys self confidence and people’s souls. Maybe even their will power to recover and do good for the community. I work in the prison system and prisoners generally like me because I refuse to humiliate them i.e. making them eat with handcuffs on, making a huge scene like some prison guards do when finding an inmate m*********** in bed at night, or just saying cruel things. I have actually hugged prisomers to make them feel better when they are at their worst and most vulnerable positions in life. I hope I make a positive difference (at least by not humiliating them).