so a month ago i started cheating on my husband, sometimes i feel so bad but my husband treats me like s***, he is always saying im useless, annoying, he doesnt love me, thats he is with me cause of our daughter (she is 3 by the way) and my lover, he is such a sweet guy, he makes lunch for me and takes it to my work, he is always saying how beautiful i am, And as much as i want to end things with my husband, my daughter just cries for him when he goes out or when he goes to work, and i feel bad just thinking about my daughter growing up without her father, im so confused right now, im between my happiness and my daughter’s happiness
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Fuck that guy, your child may be sad because of her dad and stuff but when you really think about it, it’s better growing without a dad/ a step dad rather than an abusive one who doesn’t love her mother. And she may feel guilty when she’s older , thinking that she is the reason for her mother’s suffering, so please go after your own happiness, as selfish as it is, it’s the right thing.
Good luck on living a better life, you deserve it.
Stop rationalizing away the fact that you married a guy you were never physically attracted to. You reduced yourself to a damn prostitute when you married him. Just admit that to yourself already!
Who said i wasnt attracted to him, i was in love with my husband, but little by little he started pushing me away with his words and with the way he was treating me, for our 5th year anniversary i had plan a date night i went to buy a dress and to get pretty for him, i payed for the food i payed for everything, and all he did was complain on how stupid it was of me to plan a date for us, making me cry in the freaking restaurant, that was 3 months ago, 3 months ago and i was still trying to fall for my husband again to fix our issues but it didnt work. And yeah maybe i am a prostitute for seeing this other guy while still living with my baby daddy but thanks to that guy my depression is getting better and my selfesteem too
If you stay with your husband, your daughter will learn that how he treats you is how a man is supposed to treat her. She is watching everything you do, so take the actions you want her to take for herself when she is older.
Your daughter will adjust. You are the adult and need to make decisions based on a longer perspective. Leaving him now will be best for you and your child in the future. Do so.