I don’t want to piss anyone off. I am 34, female, an office manager and I decided that I would step aside and let the better man win. I am tired of the game, I want to just settle down, have a family and be who I am. I never wanted to cook but now I do. I never wanted to do as ‘I am told’, but now I do. I never wanted to wake up and ‘let him’ but now I do. I never wanted to called ‘the wife’ but now I do. I never wanted to stand around in the kitchen with the women but now I do. I want my days filled with other things, I want to go to Pottery Barn and look for nice things, I want to go estate sales and look for furniture for my house, I want to sit at home and nurse my baby, I don’t want to take her to daycare, not even for one day.