Why do ppl obsess over the ones who rejected them? Theres even a revenge culture of making sure youre doing better than your ex. Or making sure you become the boss of those who wouldnt hire you. Or becoming “someone” to show the ppl who thought you be nothing, that were wrong. Why is there a rejection backstory everyone still remembers & obsesses over? Most people can still remember rejection from like 3rd f****** grade & still harbour this obsessive need to track down this person or some fantasy of running into them hoping their is in shambles just bc they rejected you 30 years ago. Its almost like ppl think they were obligated to be praised but when rejection came instead, they set their targets on them. Hell is wrong with human beings?