Hi there, so I know this is a place to confess but I’m hoping to also seek some advice here. I’m worried that my husband doesn’t find me attractive anymore, there is this girl we worked with a lately she has been flirting with him whenever we see her out. I’ve made my husband aware I’m not comfortable with this, yet I have come to find him liking her pictures on social media and messaging her to check she got home ok and calling her hun. I’ve put on weight since we first met and don’t make as much of an effort, should I go to the gym and start wearing make up and false eyelashes and tan again to get him to direct his attention back to me?