I have been married to my lovely wife for a little over 2 months. I have a pretty high s** drive- but she doesn’t. When we go upstairs after watching the news, she’s usually pretty tired- and wants to go straight to bed. I am usually fairly h****- and want to mess around. We do cuddle for a bit and I sometimes feel her up- but I want to have s** with her more often. Also, she doesn’t feel comfortable giving me a BJ. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to go about changing this?