My mom is a fighter- she fights about any little thing that she precieves either hurts her, her name, or anything she doesn’t agree with. My mom is even getting on me to become a fighter…but that is not my personality. I try not to sweat the little stuff, and if a person walks over me ever now and then, so what? We all get walked over in some way. However, if I find it truly necessary, I will fight and take action. The question I ask myself is: is this issue going to matter in a year? If the answer is no, I usually won’t bother.
I’d rather live in peace and happiness- I’ve seen how much turmoil my mom had to deal with in life because of her fighting ways. I don’t want that to be me.