My husband is totally oblivious to how he talks to me. He’s constantly putting me down and saying awful things to me. When I call him on it, he accuses me of whining, being a “sad sack” and not being woman enough to handle truth. Honestly, he thinks nothing of it! I almost don’t care…except we have 3 kids, one that is a newborn. I do everything for the kids, he doesn’t lift a finger. The only help I get is from my parents when I work late. I even told him if we had a girl that I hope her husband didn’t speak to her and treat her like he treats me lately and he said that he would hope his daughter would “woman-up” and act right. ???