It’s been a year since we last talked to each other on the phone. You bitched me out telling me how rotten I was to our younger brother and his wife. You even called me a name to which I was greatly offended at. You accused me of things I didn’t do and someone went behind my back and snitched on me to you. Six months ago I heard you never had any trust in me and our younger brother, only you had your full trust on his wife, our sister-in-law. It seems you have a problem trusting men in our family and that has been an issue you never had dealt with and maybe that’s why you don’t have any trust at all in anyone to this day. You chose to step back away from me. That’s fine! I haven’t bothered with you, I haven’t spoken to you, I haven’t called, texted or emailed you since. Since you’re not following me on the socials I’m not going to bother following you anywhere online. You have your life, I have mine. We come from different worlds and we come from different generations. You don’t need me, I don’t need you. You don’t speak about me, I don’t speak about you. You don’t trust me, then I don’t trust you. You put your full trust in an in-law to confide with, that is something you should never do for it is a red flag that will go against you. Go live your life how you want for I’m not part of it. You’re not part of my life now and whenever you come to your senses and realize what you did to me don’t come crying to me if your world comes crumbling down for I won’t be there for your comfort nor will I show any pity towards you. I will not help you with your problems for you have to figure things out for yourself. Don’t come to me if you’re in a life s**** moment for you will have to deal with these things on your own. I will not interfere nor will I intervene in your life for I have my own life to deal with. The only thing I am offering you is tough love and that is all I will give to you. Until you can truly change your ways and admit your mistakes I have nothing to say to you. And I leave you with this: there is no perfection and you cannot always say you’re right all the time. You need to swallow your pride before it consumed you completely. Until then, take care!