As if my boyfriend didn’t give me enough red flags, today he said ‘NO DOGS’. I have three dogs, and they are not little ones either. One is a pit bull and the other two are great pyranees. He says we need to stay with each other for one week, day and night to see how we can live together before we divorce our spouse’s. But my mind is slowly drifting away from that thought. No dogs? I’m the type of person who will pick up the dirtiest, mangiest dog and put it in my car to help it. I don’t care how dirty it may be. I can clean up dirt but I can’t miss a chance to help a little life in need because that may be their only chance. He say’s ‘I’ll pet a dog, say how cute it is and donate to shelters, but I will not put one in my house. They’re dirty and hairy.’ … I’m dirty and hairy, I play in the garden barefoot and have long hair that will shed in the shower. But I’m a very clean person. I cannot stand a dirty house so I’m always cleaning. BUT the fact still stands that he said that about dogs and I don’t know if I can get over that. Animals are a huge part of who I am. I love them too much. And a life without animals would be.. so sad. I connect better with animals than people so I would feel so alone. And another thing he called out was jealousy. He can’t have a jealous partner. I am like super possessive. I don’t want him hanging out with three attractive girls at a pool party until 3am. But he says I’d have to be cool with that. Yet, he gets upset with me when his friend sent me a text message and I answer. I just don’t think I can handle what he’s asking. I think we’re better off as secret lovers vs exclusively with each other. I just think.. I’d be sad. He has money, can f***, and would be supportive but.. no animals? No obsessive love? I’m afraid we may not be a good fit and I’m not sure how to tell him that without feeling like I’m pushing him away.