I know my wife is having an affair, I have known for almost a year and I have never said anything to her. I found out by looking at her text messages when she left her phone at home one day. Her phone went off and I picked it up and it was a text from her lover saying he was going to be late. She was supposed to be out shopping with a friend.
I tracked her car to a hotel and waited outside. I watched as a guy from her work pulled up and went into one of the rooms. Two hours later she came out first then drove away. I was going to confront him but I just sat there as he got into his car and drove away. I followed to find out where he lived and again I was going to confront him and make a scene in front of his wife. Again like the coward I am I lost my nerve.
Lots of times over the last year I have sat outside hotel rooms and a few times outside my own house during the day when she thought I was at work. Sometimes when that happens I come home and initiate s**. She always complies and seems to enjoy it.
I am afraid if I tell her I know and have let this go on she will lose respect for me and leave me. But last week she told me she is pregnant and that would be our first even though we have been trying for two years.