I am 14 and when I get in trouble I get spankings from my Mom or my Dad. Both of them pull my pants down or lift my skirt when spanking me, is this normal?

I feel I am too old to get spankings, and it really hurts, is this legal to do to a teenager, or do I have legal rights to stop it.

My Did uses a leather belt, and sometimes pulls my p****** down as well. I feel embarrassed to have him see and touch my b***. He spanks much harder than my mother and it leaves bruises that last a week or more and kids at school see them, in the locker room and ask me what happened.

My Mom saw the bruises when I got out of the shower and insisted on rubbing hand cream on my b*** to help it heal and sooth the pain. She yelled at my Father and made him come see what he did to me. He just said next time it will be worse…