I got into an argument with both my mom and sister. Honestly I doubt anyones gonna reply but i also just want someone to be straight up and say who’s in the wrong. When I got back home after school, I saw my grandma over. She’s an older lady, near her late 80s. I knew she was coming over, but I didn’t know that she was going to sleep over for the night and stay for the remainder of the day. I had no problem with it, I expected to be out for the remainder of the day tomorrow to celebrate a friend’s birthday until my mom had told me that I would be taking care of her. I admit, I acted out in a way I shouldn’t have and I was angry. Im ashamed now for what I’ve did. And it was on me for not telling her earlier about the plans that I made. I told her that I was going to be out, and that my brother would have to take care of her. I thought it would be fine to be honest, he’s a grown adult and he’s able to take care of her. My mom had simply said that I would be the one to take care of her, and my brother wouldn’t do anything else . I feel conflicted, I just wanted to go out with a couple of friends — so why was all this pushed onto me when my brother could’ve handled it fine when I would be away? I argued with my mom, my grandma overheard. I shouldn’t have done that and I was a b**** about it and my sister called me out for it. She agreed it would be my responsibility and not my brothers, and that I didn’t have a choice.
It’s deserved tbh — and I was being a brat about it in front of my grandma but im SOOO irritated.
My brother doesn’t have work this weekend, and I have plans and wanna be there for my friends.
Am I being a self entitled brat, probably.
