My partner and I found out I’m pregnant. It wasn’t planned and when we discussed the chances of something going wrong and accidentally falling pregnant in the past he always said he’d be there for me.
A few days ago we found out I was pregnant. We are young and I was very scared. However I told him I wish you simply not discuss anything negative about the fetus, as the whole process will be painful for me, I really wanted his support.
That same night he started acting distant, becoming slowly more aggressive and started punching things. I was really scared so I left and sat in another room quietly to myself as I wanted to not be a part of that.
As a side note, I had mentioned to him my abuse in the past. I was physically abused for months by a previous partner so any sort of violence or aggression really didn’t do well with me.
He ended up continuing to hit the walls Ect. And ended up leaving the house. He left me alone after just finding out about us having a child.
He’s apologized a lot since then but I still hurt so much. I don’t want to be with him anymore because of how he’s reacted and I’m so frightened on what’s going to happen.
To add I’m not in danger. I’m not in any situation I am safe it just pained me.
Thank you for listening