I saw a marriage therapist say one of the biggest reasons guys didn’t marry a women was because they’re too “independent”. I understand why guys feel this way, but look at the bigger picture. You’re not gonna be happy with a women who sees you as her last option. You want a women with self-respect. You want a women who’s been through hardships. A lot of guys don’t actually want to be in a committed relationship and just wanna tie a women down. Also vice versa. I’ve seen my sister complain about the women her boyfriend sees. Then she points out a hot guy (idc about grammar rn). It’s really not that hard to hold yourself to standards you hold your s/o to. I don’t go to the gym and go for every hot guy that takes an interest in me. Meatheads don’t f*** right. You don’t wanna attract every man/women…. pulling b****** doesn’t matter if they’re all the wrong b****. Have some self-respect.
