i am having a complete learning ban until i have a bedroom of my own again. i am sick of living poor when i have great skills and should have bad more good things in life by now. when people tell you, no such thing as shouldaa’s , what they are really saying is “forfeit your rights ” don’t let them do that to you, its like when people like to say learn from things in our audit and shift blame, no you need to not be fearful of blame. people are too afraid to own blame now.