i have had three serious relationships. the first one was on and off for three years. the second wasn’t so serious only four months and didn’t know each other that well but i count it anyways because i learned a lot and whatever. third was my most serious. we tried many things, helped each other through the most literal worse times nobody should ever have to go with, took vacations together with his family, just the best most serious relationship i could possibly imagine. anyways. all three broke up with me for the exact same reason. “they lost interest”/ “got bored”. i’m not really sure what that means because that doesn’t really happen to me. i mean a lot of the time there’s little ruts in between, and i honestly don’t usually care too much about them in the beginning but i learn to love them and then i fall for them harder than anything before. but then they lose interest. i have asked so many time, especially with my most recent one. why did you lose interest? what could i have done? they always tell me i’m perfect and nothing i could have done. does that just mean i’m not a sustainable gf? i don’t understand how if i’m “perfect” then how would they lose interest..?