friends should have your back, they say. Here I am, again, realizing that this is not my case for sure and that mine either just don’t care enough, or they are just like all those people who think “someone else will do something, it does not directly concern me so I won’t say a thing”. They knew a guy was trying to get in my pants to win a bet (we’re 20), my BEST FRIEND and closest friends knew it, and they just didn’t tell me. They did not even admit their fault, as an excuse some of them told me “I was about to tell you but then I though you would have been sad” (‘couse it is obviously better to discover about it after weaks than immediately, right?), and one even had the courage to say “It’s a bro-thing, a bro-pact, it’s how boys thinks, is their culture, it is wrong but what should I have done?” (my closest female friend after my bestfriend) or “It wasn’t my place to say, I think that he should have told you, it wasn’t something that concerned me”. Now they woder why I don’t want to go out with them.
