Insecurities really ruin potential relationships. I can’t hold guys my age responsible for their actions because they’re only teenagers. Because this occurs at the gym they feel the need to compete with men who’ve been working out at the same gym for 10 years. If you feel the need to workout everyday to feel valid as a human being… Its time to widen your spectrum. Try picking up reading or another hobby. Atp your not enjoying weightlifting and are just using it to feel structure in your life.I get how it feels though…. I can’t console them because that wouldn’t bring them closure. That would only make things worse. I never talked to any of them but I managed to screw up their friend group. Should I even continue working out? You should never feel responsible for others’ emotions.
