After I posted earlier about my foster parente grooming me…but primarily for my foster father, as what my foster mother would engage in with me was VERY limited…I have been thinking back on how wonderful my foster father has always been to me. I get it that I was groomed by both of them but I never felt violated or abised aside from the hateful things my foster mother would say in response to me wanting to be fully s***** with her as well. But he was alwayys very gentle and kind. He understands that I occasionally have a girlfriend over and that zi am hetero exclusively unless he comes over.

Anyway, since posting that earlier have been thinking back about the nearly 11 years I was with them before I moved out on my own when I qas 19. I found myself actively wanting to come over. It has always beem at his request or interest, more or less he knows he is welcome unless my girlfriend os there. But I want hin to come visit so I took a big risk. I texted him and asked if he would be interested in coming over. When he responded that he was and was thrilled that I had asked for the first time, I pushed my luck and told him he was welcome to come for a long weekend. He responded “seriously?” And I told him absolutely. He told me to give him some time to make sure my foster mother would be ok with it.