• 2 years ago
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So I got a new job that I absolutely love at a doctors office. I love everything about it EXCEPT my coworker. We share the same space all day everyday and she’s so annoying to the point it causes me physical pain. I don’t want things to be awkward, so I’m incredibly kind to her. We’ve even hung out a couple times just bc I thought I’d give her a chance. I thought she was nice at first, but it quickly changed. She literally never stops talking and she’s super sensitive. She always rants about how none of her friends hangout with her anymore, and how the girl who worked here before me acted like they were friends and as soon as she got a new job they never spoke again. I completely understand that. I’ve considered getting a new job honestly just because of her. She also always goes on about how she’s insecure because she’s heavy and unattractive (her exact words not mine, even though she’s not wrong) but of course I try to cheer her up and say that’s not true. She seems to take anger out on me because she perceives me as skinny and pretty (for example I was talking about going out over the weekend with my friends and she got red in the face and said “yeah that’s probably fun for you since you fit the fucked up beauty standards that we have but I don’t so I’d never do that”). Shes SO LOUD ALL THE TIME & says she can’t stand when she can tell people aren’t listening to her, or if she gets interrupted when she’s speaking and then no one asks her to continue. She does that to me all the time to the point where I don’t bring anything up to her anymore. She stormed off in a crying rage a couple days ago because a patient was 2 mins late to their appointment and didn’t say “have a good day” to her when they left. I mean she literally turned red and was yelling about how inconsiderate that person was for not acknowledging her and being late… she cried because her friend got a milkshake from around the corner and didn’t bring her one. I could go on an on. I’ve recorded conversations and sent them to friends and my boyfriend and they all think I should just tell her how I feel. But considering I have to share an office with her I don’t think that’s a good idea. Also. Her mom is the office manager so I don’t want her to hold anything against me. However her mom on multiple occasions has told her that she’s overreacting whenever she’s upset over something stupid. The other day she literally told her to stfu. I guess that’s my rant and I feel a bit better but idk. Maybe I’m the a******. I’ve typed this all while she’s ranting to me about how she’s going to block her friend because she “is tired of her posting pictures of herself in a bikini, it must be nice to have a skinny dancers body” I can’t

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