MY wife has lot a ton of weight via gastric bypass and has gained confidence in herself. She’s gained so much to even venture out of our marriage and talk,sext other men online. I’ve caught her twice and forgave her. I decided to somewhat open the marriage and let her talk to other men. I told her if shes hiding anything else I won’t bother talking to her and just divorce. I’m my witts end cause everytime she picks up her phone. I feel like shes hiding something. She lets me read every conversation she has with these men via kik but I somehow feels she deleted stuff. I’m torn for my kids sake. I gew up in a broken home and hated how my dad was never around. I don’t want my children going through that.