Everyone in my life is getting amazing news and moving on with their lives – huge payrises, a new baby, accepted onto a degree programme, a house purchase, exploring the world. I’m everyone’s conduit for their great news even though I’ve told them I’m in the darkest place I’ve been in my life and struggling to get up everyday. Of course I’m outwardly supportive and give advice where it’s asked for, but it’s killing me that people keep giving me these updates every day and never ask me how I am or think about how I’m feeling. I just broke up with someone and despite asking for support multiple times no one has answered – they just keep telling me all THEIR great news. I’m so angry people are willing to take but never give.