My first daughter is the product of a r***. I dont want to tell her, for fear that she thinks SHES bad because the guy that did it was bad. I have no idea how to deal with this as she gets older and really starts pressing me about her “birth father”. How I tell her? Do I tell her? What if she does a DNA test? What if she hates herself or whoever he was? ECT. I lived with hate for a long time (for someone else) and I dont want her to feel that rage. I love her so much, just want her to be happy. I know this secret will crush her…