If you were being cheated on, would you want to know? Long story short – I have been sleeping with this guy for a few months, meeting at hotels and such. And i’ve never had a ‘relationship’ with someone like this (As in just sleeping with each other, no real relationship status, just s** buddies) but I figured he was very direct, very blunt about what he wanted and I found that kinda attractive so I figured why not give it a shot and see how I feel about it. Well.. He is fun in bed but he nuts too fast and doesn’t let me finish AH anyway! That is not the point, the point IS – I found out he DOES have a lady of 5 years, and to make things worse, he just proposed to her the other day but we are still banging on the side. Now I’m in this place where I’m debating on whether or not to rat him out to his fiance before she gets stuck in this unhealthy marriage, OR should I just keep it on the dl and have the side d*** for whenever I want it. Problem with that is, like I said, he doesn’t let me nut, he makes me pay for rooms every so often (I figured we could go even on expenses but yuck) he hides things and lies to me, so were not close emotionally, he’s not pleasing me in bed, he makes me go out of my way, and I’m not so sure I’m happy with the way he is treating me. He acts sweet, but his actions are not so sweet. I’m soooo close to just reaching out to his lady, calling her, and letting her know whats up. I’m just worried he’s gonna like come for me as soon as she finds out. He knows where I live, he freaking chokes me, and he’s got some like serious anger bursts that he’s been trying to hide. Idk, my friends all told me immediately he give these like killer vibes (lmao) but I didn’t really care because we’re just f******. AH but his FIANCE changes everything! SO What would you do in this situation? Would you tell the lady? Would you want to know that you’re being cheated on at such a ‘happy moment'(newly engaged) in your life? Any and all advice is greatly appreciated!~