i think i like girls and my crush is this really sweet girl- lets call her daffodil. im not super close with her, but recently she’s become very close to my other friend, bella. bella doesnt like girls, as she’s made abundantly clear to me and many others. however, she is very flirty with everyone she talks to and i’m very worried that she may be leading daffodil on without realizing it. the other day i heard daffodil talking about bella and im just about 90% she likes her. its killing me because bella is always better than me at everything and now she gets to steal my crush too. its not even her fault but it just makes me feel like absolute s***. bella is also super likeable and nice so its impossible to hate her. i cant even tell anyone i know irl about this because i havent come out to anybody yet and nobody would side with me because im overreacting.