i am so sick of my wife and in-laws not accepting me for who i am i am an adult male with adhd i have lost jobs i find it hard to maintain cleanliness every time i set out too do something I get distracted sometimes i forget what my wife says she says that i just dont care but that isn’t true at all i feel like a failure every time the in laws peak in and see the front room messy or i forget what how too do something i was already taught simply cause my brain doesn’t operate the way other peoples do ADHD is part of who I am and who i have accepted it why cant they
