I am having trouble with an issue with my relationship. We have been together for 10 years almost and since early on we had an issue with an old friend of mine who I have known since I was 3. The friend is a female and my partner had a issue with her for previous reasons before our getting together. I saw this friend recently and has got me thinking that I should reach out and see how she’s doing but I’m afraid of hurting my partner, basically my partner hasn’t wanted me to even look at this friend since we have got together. Replies welcome for advise.