To “Uncle Jeff” from another confession: You have just scarred that child for life. What you did to her, even if it wasn’t penetrative, is something she cannot understand as a 10-year-old and that will give her a lifetime of confusion and insecurity. You have no idea what you’ve done.

She will never feel worthy, or secure, or loved by any adult in her life. She will always remain on-guard. It is absolutely shameful and disgusting that you did that to a child. In your eyes it wasn’t bad, but what the hell do you think it was like for her? She was clearly being groomed, and you took part in her grooming. F*** you. F*** you. F*** you.

I’m 26 years old and have never felt like a real man because of how my father abused me. You are a child predator, and that is the blunt truth. You have no excuse as an adult. You’ve destroyed that kid’s future.

Go to hell.