I met a man who goes by the name “The Prestonian” on a local site in my area. I found his name here and read some of his stories and found that what happened to me was not unique.

I am a white man, 35, married and bi curious living in the South. Prestonian had a lot of confidence and I thought he’d be a good person to show me how to enter the gay world. When I met him he demanded that I bring him a “bag of hamburgers”, ok maybe this is how it’s done. When I arrived at the park he said “ok cracker let’s go over yonder behind that damn bathroom building”.

He was very gruff and bossy. When we got behind the bathroom he started eating the cheeseburgers and asking me questions. Then he got real mad and said “white b**** you better pull your damn trousers down!”

I followed his instructions even though I didn’t like the racial language he used.

I had used a d**** before but this was the first time I took a p**** in my a**. He was behind me slapping my a**, shouting and calling me racial names and also using the N word in reference to himself, for instance he said “what you gonna do when that n***** the Prestonian goes wild on you brother?”

Eventually he let out a moan and then a yell and ejaculated in my a***. Then he said “stay there, stay there” and he spun me around (I thought he wanted a BJ) and farted in my face. Then he laughed and walked away shouting “TAKE THAT RACIST A** CRACKER JACK!”

I’ve never considered myself a racist and I’m sorry that I offended him somehow.