God f*** I make an effort to actually have conversations with guys who I match with when its clear they dont want to go straight to the “hey lets f***” stage on dating sites and try to riff off their interests and ACTUALLY TALK CUS THEY SAID THEY WANTED TO BUT MAKE ZERO EFFORT. I stg carrying some of this is harder than flirting because at least with flirting theres an end goal to f*** and be s*** jesus christ dont put “i want convo before we f*** and to get to know you” like b**** you dont even try

It f****** s**** these guys were so cute and had interesting hobbies but are just so impossible to stay engaged in any form of communication

someone actually shoot me even the guy who had a really s*** name pickup is nore appealing than this