My boyfriend and I dated for two years. In that time, I did everything I could to make him feel loved and did spontaneous things for him when he was feeling down and make a big thing of apologies and tried to be as lovey as I could. He was good to me, too. He messed up and hurt me really bad sometimes and he apologized, but he never went the extra mile. He never tried to surprise me with a meal I loved or flowers or a note he wrote. I tried to go the extra mile for him always, but he barely tried with me and I always let it go thinking “It’s fine, I know he loves me” and today I saw a video on Instagram where a guy showed his girlfriend feeling bad and got her flowers and her favorite food and I cried cause I didn’t have that for two years.
