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The day has barely begun…and already I can feel the darkness creeping into me…I hate this feeling…I don’t like being alone…all I see are happy couples…why can’t I have someone too…? Why is it…that I’m always thrown away like trash…?

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  • don’t mind them, you’ll find someone too if it’s meant to be. <3 just forgive and let go.

    Anonymous February 14, 2020 3:04 pm Reply
    • “If it’s meant to be”….that is literally the worst possible thing I could have heard right now…you’ve basically confirmed that I’m meant to be alone…to be the universe’s toy to play with emotionally…always leading me on…then laughing in my face as the ones I give my heart to laugh and reveal they never loved me…

      Always thrown away like trash…never allowed to be happy or loved…no matter how hard I try…I’ll always be alone…lucky if anyone cares when I die…

      Anonymous February 14, 2020 3:16 pm Reply
  • Hey. I know how you feel. I was there too.

    tl;dr, some ppl are shitty and don’t deserve u in the 1st place, so don’t expect them to fulfill u more than u can fulfill yourself.
    Love yourself, show ’em u don’t need their shit to be and feel amazing. <3

    But you can't depend on someone else to be happy.
    Being with someone or dating won't just up and end how you feel about yourself. Sure it's nice and all, but it won't fix things all of a sudden.

    You can't expect someone else to love you if you don't appreciate yourself first. 'cause no matter what that person says, deep down you still doubt yourself, you still hate things about yourself.
    So even when compliments and appreciation from someone else are genuine, you'll always feel like they're hollow.

    Please, take time to appreciate who you are right now. Even if it's in the smallest things. Be proud of what good for yourself you have accomplished.
    And if you're not happy with yourself at all, think of how you'd want to be. Then focus on becoming that person, or the closest possible.

    Anonymous February 14, 2020 3:21 pm Reply
    • Why care about myself if no one else will? If another person can’t even see anything good about me then why the hell should I? I’ve never understood how people can expect me to give a single shit about myself if it just means I’m still alone. If I have someone who loves me…then at least I know I’m worth something…but…I can’t feel that alone…I NEVER have…

      No matter how hard I try…no matter what I do…I’m never happy single…I’m never GOING to be happy if I’m single…I need the love of another person…otherwise…I’m never happy…and it’s looking more and more like I’m not allowed to be happy…I’m not allowed to have love…because no matter how hard I try…they always throw me away like trash…because that’s all I am…trash…trash that needs to burn and be destroyed…

      Anonymous February 14, 2020 3:32 pm Reply
  • First of all, whomever other person fails to see the good in you, that’s THEIR loss. Not yours.

    People have made you miserable by forcing you to believe that without them, you’re nothing. That’s bullshit, and no one who makes you believe that ever wants you to be happy. They want only to use you and then dump you. Because they exploit that weakness.

    Being alone is hard. It’s harsh, because you have no one else to look up to or find comfort in. No one to tell you good things and motivate you.

    But also, it’s the time you see your flaws, everything you hate about yourself. And alone, no one shields you from that. But you need to acknowledge and confront this eventually, otherwise you’ll never grow out of it, because you’ll always fear this boogeyman.

    Being alone can be a good thing. It’s the only time and situation where you can actually focus on yourself, to do the things only you like and not have to go out of your way to appease someone else.

    If you see yourself as trash, others will perceive that and treat you likewise.
    You can’t expect someone to respect you if you don’t show them that you genuinely DESERVE respect.

    Anonymous February 14, 2020 3:50 pm Reply
    • There is NOTHING about myself that I like! I hate EVERYTHING about myself! There’s no one “forcing” me to believe what I believe. I’ve ALWAYS felt that alone I am nothing! Everyone around me has always spent my life telling me everything I do is wrong, and that no matter what I say or do I’m the one who causes every problem!

      But when I have someone who I can love…and who loves me…it makes living bearable…being alone is NOT a good thing for me because alone all I think about is how terrible it is to be alive…how can I do anything that I enjoy when the only thing that allows me to enjoy anything is not being single…?

      How am I expected to give a single shit about myself if no one else will…? Why should I believe that I am worth anything when I have no one at my side to tell me I’m worth something to them…?

      Anonymous February 14, 2020 4:02 pm Reply
  • Then be like me and get your shit together and do some work. Valentine’s day is all for the winning once you got your degree and your money. There’s nothing women love more than money. Guess what i’ve been doing all day? Studying!!! Now go do something that has long term benefits and stop feeling the valentine’s sads. Not EVERYONE else is with someone they like. I’m alone and i’m just fine. The media wants you to THINK you need someone on this day so you wil BUY shit. Don’t fall for it. Get rich and get whoever you want even if you’re not that attractive, as I am.

    Anonymous February 15, 2020 2:44 am Reply
    • That’s TERRIBLE advice! Money doesn’t equal true love! Money means you get someone who ONLY wants you for money! I want REAL love, not a gold digger who doesn’t actually love me!

      Anonymous February 15, 2020 11:31 am Reply

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