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I hate my life, I hate I have to care for my autistic child all the time, I can’t visit my parents because husband and parents are not on talking terms.

Basically my husband want to come along with me to my parents home but he won’t talk to anybody, he will be in my room eating food and snacks while I can give my child to my siblings to care for him and we can go out or have s** in the room. I mean it is so pathetic, because to avoid this s*** from happening I don’t go to my parents.

I really want to go alone to my parents, I need break from my husband, if he comes along I must take care of his needs there too, but I just want to relax a bit and recover mentally.

Husband just won’t help around the house, won’t take his diabetes medication and just want to win every argument. I always have to be careful not to get too competitive or else there will be fight next day.

The worst part of it all is that it is all my fault that I didn’t get along with his parents because of which now they won’t babysit. That’s the reason why I should be taking up all the burden while he disrespect my parents.

My parents won’t help me get divorce and I can’t make money with disabled child to care for. I’m just dead from inside.

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  • I’m so sorry to hear all that. And I feel you. Is there any chance to get some time of help for the kid? Like a house nurse? Or to send them to a special school for long hours? Your husband sounds completely useless. I would definitely recommend devorcing him as soon as you felt comfortable about it.

    Anonymous January 16, 2020 10:21 pm Reply
  • Making yourself mentally and emotionally fulfilled and stronger can make you much stronger op. Maybe include hobbies you really enjoy? Or do school? Just anything that’d make you feel glorified and happy and gives you something for you to wake up and look forward to each day. Something that’s just for you. It’s a bonus if it gives you some money or some new friends as well. And please please never let a guy make you get distant from your immediate family.

    Anonymous January 16, 2020 10:40 pm Reply
  • Hi,
    You need anti depressant tablets to help you with your problems,.
    Go and see your doctor and have him prescribe them to you.
    It will take about 3 weeks for the tablets to take full effect.
    When your mind is settled, your emotions are under control and you can think clearly, then remove all of the negatives from your life and keep only the positives and move forward to a happy and positive future.
    You can remain on anti depressant tablets for as long as you like.
    I enjoy the safety, security of my mind, being able to control my emotions effectively and better able to order my life to my needs, to the exclusion of all else, most of all.
    If however, you decide you want to come off them:
    You simply cannot go Cold Turkey, that simply does not work and you will mentally harm yourself.
    Reduce your anti depressant medication by 1/4 of a tablet each week, until you are off the medication completely.
    If you feel weird at any time, go back on your full dosage and try again a few weeks later.
    Seeing a Psych simply does not work and you should save yourself the money spent, to do so.
    Good Luck and Best Wishes……..

    Anonymous January 17, 2020 4:52 am Reply
    • Anti depressants didn’t help me at all, just made me feel more numb. They helped my friend though.

      Anonymous January 17, 2020 9:05 am Reply
  • I have no words, I’m sorry you’re going through this

    Anonymous January 17, 2020 9:05 am Reply

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