My life is falling apart. My friends are leaving me because I was trying to be supportive of the LGBTQ+ community, my crush led me on mega hard and then ‘dumped’ me and now treats my like s***. An ex boyfriend is telling everyone, including my younger brother, that I sent him nudes and videos of myself when I never did. I go to a different school than my best friend and were both being bullied. I want to self harm again. and its been about a week since I last did it and I’m trying to stop but I’m so so so sad and confused. Can someone help me?
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If they’re that terrible to you,they weren’t good people to begin with,you should fill your life with friends who truly care for you and understand that you have your own ideals. Dont hurt yourself because they’re losers and love hurting others,you did nothing wrong
thank you.
You’re welcome,you’re a really brave person,dont ever give up who you are. The world needs more kind people like you and less like those jerks. Its gonna be hard for a bit,trust me,I was bullied by my own family and friends so I know the pain,but itll get better as long as you keep being you.
if I could send love in a letter I would. I don’t know why but this stupid confession site is so much more supportive then people I know
That’s because there is good people in the world,they’re just few and far between,which is sad as we should all be kind to one another. I’m glad people like me can be there for others who need to be picked up,and I’ll gladly do it everytime with a smile
You dont have to if you dont want to and I know the point of this is to be anonymous and I may get in trouble but if you ever need a friend,chat me up on fb,its victoria eden hernandez. Idk if I’ll get banned for this comment or just get a bunch of trolls harassing me but if it might help someone,I wont mind in the long run
Why are you asking people to help you harm yourself? Can’t you just do it on your own?
They need help jerk,not someone to make them feel worse. Dont listen to this tool
haha thanks. Its hard but ill try.
Please do,your life is precious.
thank you
I’m asking for help for ideas to stop self harming
I’d reccomend finding something you enjoy doing and forming a hobby around it. Avoid negative people the best you can and if you cant,dont let them in your head. If it happens,just focus on the things that bring you joy and move forward with your life. Eventually you wont want to do it anymore,that’s how I stopped. I started drawing,building models,taking photographs,what ever I could to stop me fro. sitting and dwelling on the pain. Look for what makes you happy
I tried to look for things and I can’t really find anything that makes me happy anymore
I’m so sorry,I know it’s hard but I’m letting you know the worst thing you can do is dwell. I know it might seem like you dont wanna go on anymore,like no matter what you do,it all seems to go wrong but I know you can fight this,stop worrying about what those other people think about you,you are a good person. Dont let them win by falling down,fight with all your might and get through that pain in your heart. Be confident in your convictions,understand what makes you happy and find a way to keep it that way and dont let anyone tell you who to be. Hurting yourself isnt going to solve your pain,it only adds to the scars. I’m telling you,look inside yourself and find what makes you smile and follow that dream,and dont ever give up
Why hurt yourself? Let a sadist do it for you and then it is a win/win! 🙂
I kind of understand how you feel because almost everyone in my school dislikes me and knows that I’m a gay furry. And even most of the internet dislikes me too Either because I’m a furry, or that I’m gay. Soooo… I guess your not alone?
I don’t dislike you. Ill be your friend also to a couple comments before it won’t let me reply to the chain for Victoria I’m on an online forum for chatting since I don’t have social media and its free so if u wanna talk there?
Of course I would love to. Just tell me where and how to find you on it
hi ok go to y99 its a chat room. my username if stupid_munchkin and my chat room is called for stupid people