Why do we feel the need to box ourselves into a one on one relationship?
In an open relationship your only staying together because you genuinely love eachother
There would be no fear that your partner is only in it for your body
Why do we feel the need to box ourselves into a one on one relationship?
In an open relationship your only staying together because you genuinely love eachother
There would be no fear that your partner is only in it for your body
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Because men and women are not rational creatures, and people have shot, stabbed, strangled, burned, clubbed, burned with acid and raped each other in jealous rages since the beginning of time. You are asking a lot. Many have tried, few have succeeded.
Yeah, but then you gotta worry about STDs.
Yeah, no thanks
Actually, I say no thanks but that’s technically what I have with the women in my life.
BUT say a woman I once new fucked off and left me in misery with absolutely nothing, offered non form of support while I picked myself up ALONE and gave everything I need to a bunch of losers who used it against me… say she came back to me and laid this on me it would be “no thanks…” because if she wants it, and I can give it, I would refuse and coldly just to be cruel to her. I’m not a cruel person but I would rip her to shreds of I could. She’d be best to stay away from me.
okay… i had to read this a few times to understand. i think that your story thing is a good reason to say no but id just generally not want to even be near them not just be in a open relation ship. also people in a open relationship normally do just leave all the sudden to fuck a bunch of other people and leave you in the dust. normally they love each other with more platonic love and less sexual love. or they its more or less even but there not just in that relationship for the sex. there in it to be with you and live with you because you are the best thing thats ever happened to them. i think people in open relationships are actually kind of cool because they love each other for who they are and not just to use them or there body.
Also, I don’t want to hear about it either, so its not really open. I don’t care, I just don’t wamt to hear about it.
And Indont want issues with what I do either. Basically a friend with benefits. That’s actually more like what I do.
But some women, if they were bored with their loser marriage with their boring unattractive spouse was loiing back at me as a side project… No. She can stay with all the interior losers where she belongs.
While it makes sense in theory, in practice jealousy gets in the way.
I’ve wanted an open relationship before and agree with your logic, but then the emotional irrational side of me rears it’s head and I know I couldn’t deal