Worried my partner is going to have an affair with a younger woman. She’s gorgeous and 29 years old, confident and exotic looking. He’s old enough to be her father. When we go out on double dates, the two of them are always bantering and teasing each other while me and her partner are pretty quiet. She even play punches him and I can tell he likes it.
I checked his phone the other night, nothing incriminating but she writes ‘x**’ to him a lot. I can see she messages him and then he calls her – no idea what they talk about. The last text he told her he was nervous about going to the dentist and she wrote to call her while he’s waiting if he wants a distraction.
I’m usually not the jealous type but I’m feeling really off about this one.
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confront him
What do I even say? As far as I know they haven’t crossed a line
It doesn’t matter if they haven’t crossed the line. It’s the fact that it’s affecting you. Communicate.
If he’s worried about the dentist, it should be YOU he finds comfort in, not her. Sounds like he’s at the very least, emotionally cheating on you.
I think you’re right. Thanks for replying
You’re old…just suggest you and your hubby swing with this bitch and her man. That way you get some dick. It’s a win win. You keep your meal ticket and at least you get even on the sex.
Confront him. What’s the worst that can happen. If you don’t tell him how you feel then he will continue to keep doing what he’s doing. There needs to be boundaries and he clearly doesn’t care. Stay strong and say what’s in your heart because it’s your life.