If everyone should take responsibility for their own feelings, how do you justify leaving a partner who is emotionally neglectful? I don't understand how

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If everyone should take responsibility for their own feelings, how do you justify leaving a partner who is emotionally neglectful? I don’t understand how those two things intersect. Like I have abandonment issues from a number of people in the past, but the partner disappears for over a week at a time sometimes, without warning me, or communicating it, even though they know that vanishing for so long puts me in that bad place again…and since I’ve only ever been mistreated/cheated on/vanished on, I don’t know whether it’s reasonable for me to feel aggrieved by this lack of communication. I don’t go chasing when they take a few days and normal space, I give them plenty of that all the time, but to take nearly 2 weeks away, it smacks of something not being right…

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