It has been almost 2 months since I had a breakup. My ex boyfriend wants to stay friends with me. So he has still kept contact with me.He calls me whenver he has a problem or is going through a tough time. I kinda work like a “stress-reliever”for him. But he would never count on me when he is happy. Niether he would listen to me . He would not listen to my sufferings or understand my emotional turmoil. He would call me once and then after several days of no contact he would call me again and ask for solutions to his problems or vent out his stress and frustration.So how hard I try to move on, I can’t. I know he can never be mine but I simply cannot cut off all connections with him as it wrenches my heart. Why is he still holding on me?
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He’s just using you as an emotional crutch. You don’t have to cut him off completely, but at least talk to him? You don’t deserve to be used and treated in this manner.
because you care about him maybe. but you have to be strong and not let him do this to you. it is completely unfair to you and it seems very onesided. he is just using you. you dont deserve to be treated that way, there should be a balance as in him being there for you too etc. he is just completely and utterly using you and its not ok and because you havent said anything he hasnt stopped. so talk to him about it, tell him how you feel. and if he cant see eye to eye, he’s clearly not worth it.