Whatever happened to good old fashioned traditionalism? I’m pretty much the only one within my friend group who is still a virgin and is willing to wait until marriage to have children.
Now everyone is so easy to give it up and willing to perform all these s***** favors for people who they don’t even last a matter of months with. Not to mention that people who I went to high school with are literally shooting out babies by the hour.
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There’s totally nothing wrong with wanting to live that lifestyle but it isn’t for everyone. Sex can be so beautiful and feel so good and right and many people may love each other very much and want to experience it together even if they aren’t willing to sign a scary binding contract. That’s not wrong. I hope that helps you consider their point of view. Sex before marriage doesn’t not make a person any less a tender sweet romantic at heart. Just one that wants to show it in such a way.
I understand your point, but the I think the person who posted this confession was speaking from the perspective in which they feel people may be giving it up more easily due to social norms rather than what most people would consider is right.
People are free to do what they want without judgement. Don’t impose you beliefs on others and live life the way you want as everyone should
They’re not imposing their beliefs you retard, they’re simply stating what they THINK. And if you do your research, you’ll find that people are more likely to be happier in their marriages and they’re children are more likely to grow up happier as well without the sting of a broken household. Not to mention that STD’s would plummet if people aren’t busy running around spreading they’re legs.
Coming from an unbroken household in just the name, no it’s not happy either you close minded fuck
People have always had sex before marriage, even in the “good old days”. They just don’t have to hide it anymore. That’s why we no longer have as many shotgun marriages or homes for unwed mothers. Same amount of sex, just less shame about it. Don’t worry about what other people are doing and just do what you feel is right for you.
Preach dude?
You understand?
I have to agree with what that person said about doing research; traditional acts of sex and marriage roles, especially when it comes to children being involved in the mix, are more likely to be happier. Yes, you can come from an unbroken home and still be unhappy, but I guess it depends on your personal circumstances.