i have been reading my husbands email account. but now i have found out that he is having an affair. Do I tell him how i found out ? we cannot divorce so praps i should keep quiet ?
i have been reading my husbands email account. but now i have found out that he is having an affair. Do I tell him how i found out ? we cannot divorce so praps i should keep quiet ?
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Tell him you know. If you love him and dont want to lose him, tell him that too. If he wants someone else find out what it is that is missing from your relationship. Dont yell or accuse. My wife was doing the same. I asked her first. I wanted to see her answer. I told her I knew. She still denied it. I told her I read her chat archive and even recited word for word what was said. She new then. I wasnt mad. I was upset. But I told her I loved her. But I cant share her with someone else. If needs to go then I would have to. You cant stop them from going elsewhere if thats wht they want to do. But you can give them a reason not to go elswehere. Work on the relationship. The problem is not that he wants someone else.
Have an open marriage.