I am 36 years old and I am married with children. When I was in college I worked at a bar and the bartender had s** with me. Eventually I had s** with him. It lasted for about seven months until I quit that job. He got a job running a bar in the town I live in now. He has always known where I am and we have met up from time to time for s**, now he wants some old time s**. He is 50 now and when I met up with him he sat beside me running his hand up and down my thigh talking to me about the s** things we used to do. Out in the parking lot he cupped me hard and demanded that we get together. Now I have a family to protect and getting caught with him will ruin everything. Am I right that he should just back off? He knows that I can’t resist and it is tearing me up.
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He already been in that and is determined. Smart thing to do would be to let it go and fuck him…might be the best way to protect your family and hell, you liked it before so you’ll likely enjoy it now. Fuckin is fun!
Bartenders and employees in that business have sex all the time and do the hell out of each other, even after they leave or are with other people. I have several friends in the business, and they often say, yeah, I met up with a guy I worked with at the bar 10, 15 years ago, had a ton of sex, and it was as good as before. One woman I know has 2 kids, a good marriage, and yet..Messed around with her current and former bar staff and customers for years. She kept it quiet, but most people knew.
The damage has already been done. You have already met up with him from time to time for sex since he moved to your town. If this guy isn’t married, he will likely blackmail you into what he wants, or he’ll spill the beans to your husband. Unless your husband could kick his ass, so he’d be afraid to tell him directly. Even so, he could still make things hard for you. I’d tell him to stay away because if you told your husband, he could be beaten an inch of his life.