I am happily married, my husband is my soul mate. If he ever left me or passed away young, I don’t know what I would do. I feel guilty that my first though would be to seduce several married men I know. I would never do this, but why I do think about it? I don’t want to be a “home wrecker” so what is it about seeking out these married men? All of this is just a thought, and I don’t think I actually would if my husband and I were not together. But it’s so strange that it’s my first thought… Maybe its because they represent safety? They are good family men so I would continue to want that? Anyone else get these feelings? (Again, I do not believe I would actually do it, I just feel guilty that it’s even in my thoughts.)
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I won’t say everyone has such thoughts, but such thought processes are far more common than most people claim or get widely talked about. I have had them and been with someone who had them.