I am an overweight ftm. My girlfriend is mtf, and she passes eally well (she is also on hrt.) and her weight is healthy. whenever i hear of her growth and how she is developing with her face i cant help but be secretly jealous. I f****** hate it and i wish i didnt think so much about myself, im so happy for her but its always in the back of my mind. Its really depressing…it also happens to me with other trans folk.
My weight doesnt help me at all,i have an extremely curvy and feminine figure. This makes me super dysphoric and depressed and in result I had an eating disorder in the past and it struggle a lot with staying away from it. A lot of my past feelings are still there and recently its been horribly hard to stay away from it thanks to the holidays.
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Dear Sir or madam-
I have an eating disorder 2. I see a therapist twice a week it really helps. Suggest you do the same.
also I might remind you that the whole world doesn’t know what your initials stand for like MTF and whatnot. Part of the reason TG people get so much flak it’s because they expect the whole world to bend to their agenda their terminology and so on. There are a lot of very serious problems on planet Earth people are suffering it’s not all about you all the time. Just some of the time. Xxx
You can do anything you want to do .. its a new year coming so its a fresh start to work on a new you.
you are strong, join a gym and talk to a therapist or life coach. one step at a time
it can be slow as fuck but youβll get there my dude and finally like how you look. from another chubby trans boy brother, have an awesome life.