I m********* to p*** and feel super guilty. Want to quit- please don’t tell me it’s ok or any of that stuff, need actual advice here.
I m********* to p*** and feel super guilty. Want to quit- please don’t tell me it’s ok or any of that stuff, need actual advice here.
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Have real sex with another person. Pay for it if you’re too kinky for regular humans.
Actual advice IS that it’s ok.
no it isn’t if addicted to it.
You won’t be able to quit so just accept it and be merry.
I struggle with this and am in the same paradoxical spot as you.
I was exposed to a porn image at age 4 and it generated a fetish that has bothered me for decades. It bothered me a lot, and I almost committed suicide 4 months ago as a result. But I’m still here… I got a girlfriend ☺️ and have really moved forward by working the following:
1. observe yourself when you masterbate and look at porn. Over time you can figure out why you watch and what it does. Are you afraid of women/men? Are you just curious? Do you have a fetish that you can’t get met IRL?
2. Be patient with yourself and give yourself love and forgiveness. Everyone is a sexual being (asexual is a sexual preference), and all of us have uniqueness in that department. It’s okay to be there and struggle with expressing it or finding someone to express it with. When I realized this I stopped feeling so ashamed. I had some guilt, but no shame. It was okay that I found women sexy. Because they are.
3. Do other things to occupy yourself. Get a hobby, play competitive sports or arcade game tournaments in public with others. Make friends, find a religion, go on a journey of self-discovery. Embrace the pain of being human.
4. If you still get stuck, consider talking with a camgirl. It’s expensive, but it helped me get through a fetish I had that was blocking me from moving forward in finding someone. Some of them are “naked therapists” of sorts, understand sex better than some licensed therapists, and can be kind and will help you work through your issues if you are kind, treat them with respect, and tip them back.
Mine helped me build confidence and realize that I’m not a complete fool and really can talk to a woman and that I’m not totally repulsive. And I learned that the sexiest woman I had ever seen… was just a person. She peed and pooped and had to take breaks. She loved to cook and watch Star Wars and DC comics and movies. She struggled with finances. It helped me peer behind the curtain and ask questions about what being a sex worker is like, and recording porn videos. And it took the mystery out of all those things, and I started to grow up.
Since then, my porn use has dropped and I now have a girlfriend who is just as awkward and human as I am.
Good luck! Praying for you.
Hey dude that is great advise !! We’ll thought out and said.
I am stuggling too. I finally understood how porn is ruining my life and ruining the things that are real that make me happy. Now it disgusts me. Look up nofap on youtube.