I recently had a bunch of friends round for drinks, one of whom was a friend of a friend. This person was really chatty and from what I could gather, flirty. Comes to the end of the night both of us very drunk, everyone else has left. I can’t really remember the conversation but I know that they edged ever closer to me, I make a pass that appears to be successful they stand up and drop their trousers and underwear, I start doing my thing. However they were so drunk nothing was happening so they stopped. I didn’t seem to get the message that they weren’t keen anymore. I pestered them randomly about it for the next hour until they left. A couple of days later the mutual friend made a remark that suggested they had been told about what happened.

I already felt uneasy about my behaviour but now I feel guilty as looking back maybe I did take advantage. It seems relatively tame but I can’t get over the guilt.

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