At my cousins birthday, I was drinking a lot, as do all of my family. My uncle and auntie and a few family friends decided to have a spa later on in the night. Whilst having this spa I decided to give my uncle a massage and he started touching my thighs and I was turned on. I kept massaging him through the night and as I was massaging his legs (I want to point out we were both very drunk by this point) I’m pretty sure I felt a b****. I kept going regardless and then I asked “what do you like the best” and he went on to then touch my b** and b**** and say “do you mean this?” Etc. That night we ended up sleeping on the same couch and spooning. He is an amazingly gorgeous man and I am very attracted to him but I feel so guilty for it because I’m married and I love my husband. I have no idea what to do because I know I will see my uncle again. Anyway, confession over
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Keep going. You don’t have to tell your husband
Stop while you’re ahead or you are going to hurt people
You are both saying what is in my head. Like the angel and the devil on my shoulders. I don’t know who to agree with
If you really love your husband you will be loyal to him… if not then you should be up front with him about it. Living with a lie is no way to live at all, trust me.
That’s not true. Why can’t you love both? You can be in love with more than one person. No one needs to know. Everyone is happy
I do love my husband. I love my uncle too. I honestly think it was just we were both drunk. The more I talk about it the more I can move on from it. I know I am attracted to both of them and I adore both of them but I do love my husband and I don’t want. To lie to him. I’m just gonna try and move on with my uncle as if nothing ever happened. I’m assuming he’ll probably do the same
But whet if he doesn’t do the same. And you’re not lying to your husband.
He is in a committed relationship too. I doubt he’ll want more from me. Or if he does he’d never say and I feel that way. I know I want more but I won’t act on it… as much as I want to