A couple of months ago I started dating this girl. She was wonderful and I fucked up big time. On our third date, we decided she was going to sleep over at my place because she was an out of town girl. It started out wonderful but then asked if she was down for s** and she said maybe (spoiler alert, she wasn’t) but being h**** and a virgin I was really persistent I kept asking and then it turned to groping. I think I groped her around three times (that I can remember). I feel f****** horrible about this because the only time she has had s** was under the influence and she wasn’t even sure it was consensual. Anyway I have no idea what to do. If I should go to the police or not since this is obviously s***** assault. Just had to get this off my chest.
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Did you apologise to her? Do that first then figure out your next step.
yeah, I did but i still dont know what to do /op
Tell her how you feel. Gils like this shit.
we are not in contact atm and me contacting her would only make things worse. I dont want to rip up old wounds.
Volunteer at a rape crisis center. After a while, tell a counselor there what you did. They will help you figure it out.
that is a very good idea! thank you!
You’re welcome but don’ t ever do that shit again.
Believe me i won’t
Just speak to this girl
as i stated in a reply above, we are no longer in contact and me contacting her would only make matters worse.
Aw sweetie. I would let you fuck my pussy. You just need to get that first cum blast out inside a girl and get rid of that nervous energy <3
funny.
/op
Did she tell you to stop groping her? If not I wouldn’t worry about it. Figuring out sex is messy. You obviously don’t want to go around groping girls, but trying to figure out sex with someone who isn’t an initiator is confusing. You seem to have a conscious and feel bad that you acted in a way that made her uncomfortable, but honestly, rapists don’t give a shit, they get off on forcing themselves on women.
yeah, she did tell me several times but idk, I wasn’t myself. I feel shitty and on top of that I am worried i will get in trouble with the police or something. Serves me right tho i guess. Thanks for your reply!