Ok so i have a boyfriend and we’ve been together in a long distance relationship for almost a year now.he’s really wonderful and I’m so happy when I’m with him.But my ex-boyfriend attends my university and well him and I have a bit of history. he was the 1st guy i fell inlove with ..and i still have feelings for him although we broke up more than 4 years ago..
the problem is recently he has started to show signs that he’s into me ..and we’ve been hanging out alone ALOT ..we say we’re both reaallly good friends..but i cant help but feel there’s something more..and i really find it hard to resist being with him ..at the same time i really love my boyfriend and these feelings for my ex are killing me..
what should i do??
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you are a slut…nothing else!
look, i did a long distance relationship.. TWICE.. and trust me it sucked. badly.
it’s really not worth it unless you know that it’s not going to be long distance for more than 1 year. and that one if you is going to live with the other person sooner than later.
but if you don’t know how long this long distance will go on and how long it will be for the two of you to be in the same country, don’t waste your time.
let it go. you should enjoy your life right now. it’s precious. even if he travels over and you travel to him, it’s still no worth it.
you need the person to be by you, next to you to enjoy it all and truly get to know the person you’re loving.
and about your ex, before you get back with him, if that’s what you want to do, look back at the reason you broke up and truly think if u can be with him again after all that. because right now you might just be feeling childhood likeness, because u were used to this person. make sure its for the right reasons.
and goodluck.
and by the way, dont listen to replyer #1, some people don’t know how to express themselves well enough.